Terms & Conditions
Last updated: 29 July 2026
These terms are an agreement between you and us about how Plai Date works. We have tried to write them the way we write everything else — plainly, and without burying anything.
Agreement
These Terms of Service ("Terms") are a binding agreement between you and Octi Connect, LLC ("Plai Date," "we," "our," or "us") governing your use of the Plai Date app and this website. By using Plai Date, you agree to them. If you do not, please do not use the service.
Who can use Plai Date
You must be 18 or older. You need to provide accurate information when you sign up, keep your account secure, and let us know if you think someone else has got into it. You are responsible for what happens under your account.
Your account, and your space
Plai Date works in pairs. When you connect with someone, you create a shared space that belongs to both of you. Practically, that means:
- Everything you put in the space is visible to the other person. There is no private mode within a shared space.
- Either of you can leave. Leaving removes your access; it does not delete the other person's account or their contributions.
- If you delete your account, your profile and your contributions go with it. The other person's do not.
What you put in
Your content stays yours. You keep ownership of everything you write, photograph and upload. You give us a limited licence to store it, process it and show it to the person you share your space with — which is what makes the service work, and nothing beyond that. We do not use your content to advertise to you, we do not sell it, and we do not use it to train AI models.
You are responsible for having the right to share what you share.
What not to do
Please do not use Plai Date to:
- Harass, threaten, abuse or coerce anyone — including the person you share a space with
- Share content that is illegal, or that sexualises minors in any way
- Share intimate images of someone without their consent
- Impersonate someone else, or connect with someone under false pretences
- Break into, scrape, overload or reverse-engineer the service
- Use the service for anything unlawful
We can suspend or close accounts that do these things. If you are in a relationship that has become unsafe, you can leave a space at any time, and we would encourage you to reach out to a local support service — Plai Date is not equipped to intervene.
Artificial intelligence
Some of what you see in Plai Date — reflection prompts, suggestions, game content — is generated by an AI model. It can be wrong, odd, or badly timed. It is there to give you a place to start, not to advise you.
Plai Date is not therapy, counselling, or medical advice. It is not a substitute for professional help, and it should not be treated as one. If you are struggling, please talk to someone qualified.
Availability
We aim to keep Plai Date running, but we do not promise it will always be available or bug-free. Plai Date is currently in early access, which means features will change, things will occasionally break, and we may need to take the service down to fix them. We will give notice where we reasonably can.
Keep your own copies of anything you could not bear to lose. We take backups, but we cannot guarantee recovery in every circumstance.
Our intellectual property
Plai Date, its name, its logo, its design and its software are owned by Octi Connect, LLC and protected by copyright, trademark and other laws. You may not copy, modify, distribute or create derivative works from the service without our written permission. This does not affect your ownership of your own content.
Price
Plai Date is currently free. If we introduce paid features, we will tell you clearly before anything costs money, and you will never be charged without agreeing to it first.
Ending things
You can stop using Plai Date and delete your account whenever you like — email hello@plaidate.com and we will action it. We may suspend or close an account that breaks these Terms, or where we are required to by law. If we do that without cause, we will tell you why.
Disclaimers
To the maximum extent permitted by law, Plai Date is provided "as is" and "as available", without warranties of any kind, express or implied, including merchantability, fitness for a particular purpose, and non-infringement. We do not warrant that the service will be uninterrupted, secure, or error-free, or that any AI- generated content will be accurate or suitable.
Limitation of liability
To the maximum extent permitted by law, Octi Connect, LLC will not be liable for any indirect, incidental, special, consequential or punitive damages, or any loss of profits, revenue, data, use or goodwill, arising from your use of the service. Our total liability for any claim relating to the service will not exceed the greater of the amount you paid us in the twelve months before the claim, or one hundred US dollars.
Some jurisdictions do not allow these limitations, in which case they apply to you only as far as the law allows.
Indemnity
You agree to indemnify and hold harmless Octi Connect, LLC and its officers, directors, employees and agents from claims, liabilities, damages, losses and expenses arising from your use of the service or your breach of these Terms.
Governing law
These Terms are governed by the laws of the State of Delaware, without regard to its conflict-of-law rules. Disputes will be resolved in the state or federal courts located in Delaware, and you and we both consent to that jurisdiction.
Changes
We may update these Terms. If a change materially affects you, we will tell you in the app or by email before it takes effect. Continuing to use Plai Date after that means you accept the new Terms.
The rest
If any part of these Terms turns out to be unenforceable, the rest still stands. If we do not enforce something straight away, that does not mean we have given it up. These Terms, together with our Privacy Policy, are the whole agreement between us about the service.
Contact
Octi Connect, LLC
hello@plaidate.com